I have been taking the last months to transform my life. Transform my life to fit the picture in my head. To not only be thinking about a dream life, but also living it. So far I have been succeeding very well. So well even that I am ready to be adding the new in鉃矯ontinue Reading…
Wonderlogues
Changing Inside
In the past months I have changed a lot. I know I have said this more than once. The thing is I used to, well I still do, see it. See it in the way I behaved, held myself and just the way I went about my day. However, now, there is a different reason鉃矯ontinue Reading…
Attracting New People
I still haven鈥檛 quite figured out how to lead small talk to the exit door. But I have noticed a change. A change that I was oblivious to until I effectively started trying stop having small talk. You know how they say when you do what you love, you鈥檒l be attracting new people who belong鉃矯ontinue Reading…
What To Do About The Nice Factor When Avoiding Small Talk
How am I supposed to cut an entire social concept out of my life when having to consider the nice factor? The question I鈥檝e been wondering about all week. The social concept I鈥檓 talking about is small talk. The obligated sharing of tedious information when meeting someone new. How did this become a rule? I鉃矯ontinue Reading…
I Honestly Still Hate Small Talk
The day I learn to just let something go, will be the day I’ll seriously rejoice. Unfortunately that day isn鈥檛 close, I think. You can already feel this one coming. I spent the past week wondering about my growing intolerance for small talk, just like last week. I honestly still hate small talk, even with鉃矯ontinue Reading…
Why Are You Telling Me This? Small Talk Discussion
During a lot of conversations that I鈥檝e been having I鈥檝e become distracted. Not in the sense of not paying attention to what the person is saying or because something different caught my attention. No, in the sense of wandering off in my own mind but not being lost. There is one question that always comes鉃矯ontinue Reading…