I still haven’t quite figured out how to lead small talk to the exit door. But I have noticed a change. A change that I was oblivious to until I effectively started trying stop having small talk. You know how they say when you do what you love, you’ll be attracting new people who belong in your life? I do wonder whether that is true.
Catch up on my vendetta against small talk here.
Since I have started to carefully select the people I surround myself with, I’ve noticed a change in me. The fact that I took my time to carefully weed out all the negative people has also made clear what kinda people I want in my life. Above that, also the new people I’d like to attract. The people I’d love to add.
This is a normal chain of reactions except the part of the new people. Since I still have to get to know them. I don’t know what makes them tick until I have spent a significant amount of time with them. A significant amount of precious time. My precious time. Somehow that makes me scared to end up back where I was. However I can’t avoid getting to know new people, let alone naturally attracting new people.
I can’t help but wonder what I can do. Is it true that as long as I keep doing me, I will attract the people I want in my life? The thing is I haven’t told anyone what I’m doing. I mean not in great details at least. So how will they know? Better yet, how will I know that they indeed are the people I want in my life?
All I know is that I will keep doing me.