Valentine’s Day. A day to show your loved ones how much you care and cherish them. Buying gifts, doing something special, going the extra mile all ways of shining light on the love for your loved ones. However when you are busy treating everyone else with love, remember not to forget someone. Someone very important. Someone that gets overlooked but should definitely be in the line of people to show a little love to. Especially if you’re doing it for everyone else just because it is Valentine’s Day.
Do not forget about yourself. You deserve to be shown love too. Not just love from a partner, family, friends etcetera, but love from yourself. Loving yourself in every possible way is a key ingredient of a happy life. It is also important in regards to loving others, but that is a different topic. You might not be perfect because you are human. You may have failed, made mistakes, done things wrong but this does not mean that you are not worthy of love.
You very much are worthy. Your quirks and differences from people should be celebrated and enjoyed by you. It all starts with you. Love yourself for who you are and who you are becoming. You are wonderful, beautiful and worthy of everything beautiful found in life. There is a high chance that you are thinking ‘’How can she say that without knowing me or having seen me? This is BS.’’. It is not. I do not need to see you to know that you are a wonderful beautiful person. I know you are because I believe you are. You should believe it too and praise yourself for it.
Take this Valentine’s day and acknowledge yourself and the person you are. Wipe the negativity filled slate clean and start filling it with love. Fill it with thoughts that are encouraging and enabling, because you are capable of anything. Fill it with acceptance of things you do that are so called ‘’weird’’. If you enjoy them, do them. Your happiness is determined by what you fill your slate with. Fill it with your smile, your laugh and your peace of mind.
No one in this world has any right to judge what it is that makes you happy for one simple reason. They are not responsible for your happiness, you are. Whatever it is that makes you love yourself, feel alive and makes you feel in love with yourself that is what you should do on this day. However not just because it’s Valentine’s Day. Remind yourself that you are an amazing person worthy of love everyday! Also, Treat yourself❣ Just for the record; whether you spend Valentine’s Day by yourself or with someone else, all the above still holds up.
Things around you might not be perfect but the love you show yourself has every potential to be.
Curious to know what I’ll be doing? Probably one of these two:
Happy Valentine’s Day My Wonders🖤